Jan. 19, 2026

Patton: The Father You Get | 175

Patton: The Father You Get | 175

In this episode of Behind Beautiful Things, host Kevin sits down with Patton, author of The Father You Get: And the Ones You Make, Believe In, and Become, for a deeply personal and reflective conversation. Patton opens up about his relationship with his father, including the impact of addiction, grief, and loss on their bond.

Patton shares his journey of losing his father and the emotional work that followed—coming to terms with a complicated relationship and ultimately redefining what it means to be a son and a father. This episode explores themes of healing, forgiveness, generational influence, and personal growth, offering listeners an honest look at how we shape our identities through both the parents we’re given and the parents we strive to become.

Please Note: This episode contains discussion of sexual abuse, alcoholism, child abuse, and incest. Please take care while listening.


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