Episodes
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Nov. 28, 2023
Nowhere to Run: Jon returns to talk about aging, how he felt completing his 31st marathon, and what keeps him putting on his running shoes | 65
Please join us for Jon’s triumphant return! Jon was recently featured in episode 58 of Sad Times (link can be found below) discussing his history as a distance runner and its impact on his mental health. On today’s episode, Jon and Kevin discuss running the Chicago Marathon, aging, and what keeps people coming back to running. Jon’s previous episode: https://www.sadtimespodcast.com/running-with-the-devil-jon-returns-to-discuss-endurance-mental-health-and-his-love-of-marathons/ Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way. Please note that Sad Times is in no way a substitute for medical or professional mental health support. Sad Times Website: www.sadtimespodcast.co…
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Nov. 21, 2023
Wellness is Wellness: Tony on his work in the mental health field, how community mental health centers serve the public, and what community means to him | 64
Even as we move toward the middle of the 2020s, the stigma around mental health still persists. There are people all over this world working to not only combat that stigma, but also to help those in need. Join us today as we speak with one of these heroes. Tony is the Executive Director of a community mental health center and works daily with not only his team, but also members of the communities to continue to remind everyone that “wellness is wellness”. ▪ Main website for Piatt County Mental Health Center: Piatt County Mental Health Center (piattmhc.org) ▪ Our Main Piatt County Mental Health FB: https://www.facebook.com/Piatt.County.Mental.Health.Center ▪ 2 Recovery Support FB Pages for work in DeWitt and Piatt County (Illinois) ▪ Piatt ROSC - https://www.facebook.com/PiattCountyROSC ▪ DeWitt ROSC - https://www.facebook.com/DeWittROSC/ • 988 Helpline: https://988lifeline.org/ • IL Helpline for SUD: Illinois Helpline (helplineil.org) Editorial note: Sad Times is committe…
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Nov. 14, 2023
Navigating Growing Up: Adam on the loneliness he felt in his childhood as he worked to adjust to a changing family structure | 63
Many people have been raised in a family that has had to split up. Often, the children affected by these changes are left alone with their feelings and wonder what outlet there might be. Join us today as we talk with Adam about his childhood, his time as a heavy metal drummer, and how he was able to confidentially transition into adulthood and have a family of his own. Charity Adam would like to highlight: https://www.aguagiftingsmiles.com/ Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way Sad Times Website: www.sadtimespodcast.com Get your very own “Sad Schwag”: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/hysteria51/albums/253388-sad-times-podcast?ref_id=9022 Follow Sad Times on F…
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Nov. 7, 2023
The Enduring Bonds of Family: Jon on losing his father at a young age, his artistic pursuits, and his continued search for his family’s history | 62
When we are young, we look to our parents as arbiters of our daily conflicts as well as the ones who point the direction our lives are headed. When a parent is unexpectedly lost, lives are changed forever. Join us today as we speak with Kevin’s Uncle Jon about the loss of his father, the resilience and love of family, and Jon’s adventures on his own. Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way. Please note that Sad Times is in no way a substitute for medical or professional mental health support. Learn more about Jon: https://about.me/joncrispin Sad Times Website: www.sadtimespodcast.com Get your very own “Sad Schwag”: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/hysteria51/albu…
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Oct. 24, 2023
A turning point in an addiction and a path forward: Part III (of III) of Katie as she discusses her struggles with alcoholism, her attempts at recovery, and the unexpected change that came over her | 61
Please join us today as we wrap up Katie’s powerful story. If you have not listened to the first or second part, please see the links to each episode below. In this final of three episodes, we conclude Katie’s remarkable story. Katie talks about her continuing struggle with alcoholism and the effect it had on her family. Finally, listen as she talks about the change that came over her during a particularly dark moment and how she is doing today. Please be advised that this episode contains descriptions of sexual abuse and eating disorders and suicidal ideation — please take care while listening. If you or anyone you know has suffered from sexual abuse, please visit: https://www.rainn.org/resources If you or anyone you know is dealing with an eating disorder, please visit: https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/help-support/contact-helpline If you are feeling suicidal, please dial 988 or visit: https://988lifeline.org/talk-to-someone-now/ Link to first (of III) episodes for Ka…
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Oct. 17, 2023
Marriage and Divorce: Part II (of III) of Katie as she discusses her experiences being married, when she discovered a secret at a tattoo parlor, and what happened after her divorce | 60
Please join us today as we present part II our three-part series with Katie! If you have not listened to the first part, please see the link to the first episode below. In this episode we pick up with Katie as she is dealing with the troubles in her marriage and follow her as she discovers secrets kept from her. Please join us as we discontinue Katie’s remarkable story as she finds herself figuring out her life with three children after a divorce, how she moves on, and the continued challenges she faces. Please be advised that this episode contains descriptions of sexual abuse and eating disorders and suicidal ideation — please take care while listening. If you or anyone you know has suffered from sexual abuse, please visit: https://www.rainn.org/resources If you or anyone you know is dealing with an eating disorder, please visit: https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/help-support/contact-helpline If you are feeling suicidal, please dial 988 or visit: https://988lifeline.org/tal…
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Oct. 10, 2023
Severe Childhood Trauma: Part I (of III) of Katie as she discusses abuse she suffered as a child, how it manifested in a need for control, and her struggles in early adulthood | 59
Please join us today in the first part of a three part series with Katie. Katie is a strong and kind woman who has been through an immense amount of trauma throughout her life. On Part I, we will discuss the horrific trauma she experienced as a child, how she did her best to deal with the abuse, and her years as a young wife and mother. Over the next two weeks, we will play part II and part III. This is truly a remarkable story. Please be advised that this episode contains descriptions of sexual abuse and eating disorders — please take care while listening. If you or anyone you know has suffered from sexual abuse, please visit: https://www.rainn.org/resources If you or anyone you know is dealing with an eating disorder, please visit: https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/help-support/contact-helpline If you are feeling suicidal, please dial 988 or visit: https://988lifeline.org/talk-to-someone-now/ Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from genero…
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Oct. 3, 2023
Running with the Devil: Jon returns to discuss endurance, mental health, and his love of marathons — Special Chicago Marathon Edition! | 58
Every year around the world, millions of people make the decision to train for and complete a marathon. Not only is it a test of human endurance, it also acts as a mental health release. Join us as Jon returns to talk about his amazing record of running and why he loves marathons so much. Also, Jon talks with Kevin as he prepares for his first marathon: The Chicago Marathon on Sunday October 8. Listen to some of Jon’s music: https://spotify.link/wElTVyAwzDb Support Hope for the Day: https://fundraisers.hakuapp.com/kevin-crispin Link to Bobette’s episode (Please note this episode contains descriptions of sexual abuse. Please take care when listening): https://www.sadtimespodcast.com/overcoming-severe-childhood-traumas-bobette-discusses-her-extremely-difficult-childhood-her-recent-medical-struggles-and-the-bond-she-has-with-her-children-43/ Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shar…
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Sept. 26, 2023
Awareness of Struggles and Escapes: Nathan on his struggles with ADD, his varying and extensive collection of hobbies, and the benefits of therapy and family support | 57
Growing up in a small midwestern town can feel isolating and filled with boredom. Often, the attention can stray. However, a creative and curious mind can help develop varying interests. Join us today as we talk with Nathan about his extensive interests, his journey through different awareness and realizations, and his continued love of hobbies and his family and friends. Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way Sad Times Website: www.sadtimespodcast.com Get your very own “Sad Schwag”: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/hysteria51/albums/253388-sad-times-podcast?ref_id=9022 Follow Sad Times on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/373292146649249 Follow Sad Tim…
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Sept. 19, 2023
Parenting a Child with Medical Complexities: Ali returns to Sad Times to discuss her motherhood journey | 56
The journey of pregnancy and childbirth is often a challenging and transcendent experience. However, when a child is born with medical complexities, the challenges become more ever present — for the child, of course, and also for the parents. Join us today as Ali returns to Sad Times to discuss her pregnancy, the birth of her son, and the challenges of parenting a child with medical complexities. Website for Lurie's Children's Hospital: www.luriechildrens.org for general info on specialists & c...
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Sept. 12, 2023
The Journey of an Empath: Teale on where she came from, the years long work she did in the mental health field, and her dramatic life change | 55
Empaths are defined as “An individual who feels more empathy than the average human.” This often leads empaths to work in fields which benefits others. Join us today as we talk with Teale about her upbringing, her career in the mental health field, the challenges of taking meaningful work home with you, and the decision she and her husband made that changed both of their lives forever. Teale’s blog: https://lavidalarosa.wordpress.com Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way Sad Times Website: www.sadtimespodcast.com Get your very own “Sad Schwag”: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/hysteria51/albums/%20253388-sad-times-podcast?ref_id=9022 Follow Sad Times on:…
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Sept. 5, 2023
The Continued Creative Struggle: Joel on continuing to make meaningful art, his reflections on his art through the passage of time, and his evolving experience with hypochondria | 54
Even as artists continue to produce meaningful work, it does not always satisfy the ambitions of said artists. Join us today as we talk with Joel about all of the fantastic animation work he has produced, his long struggle with hypochondria, and how he continues to create even as he deals with doubts. Link to Joel’s website: https://electricbeard.com Link to Joel’s animation Facebook page: https://m.facebook.com/profile.php/?id=100077811218585 Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way Sad Times Website: www.sadtimespodcast.com Get your very own “Sad Schwag”: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/hysteria51/albums/253388-sad-times-podcast?ref_id=9022 Follow Sad Tim…
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Aug. 29, 2023
The Trauma of a Stage Four Cancer Diagnosis: Elliot’s story of his wife’s Stage 4 Cancer diagnosis, their fight against the disease, and the resulting experiences of grief and acceptance | 53
One of the more common known phrases in the Western World is “In sickness and in health”. While many of us vow to honor these words, it is not often something that is encountered early in life. Please join us today as Elliot tells the brave story of his wife’s Stage 4 Cancer diagnosis, their struggles through the progression of the disease, and the love, mercy, and grief that often accompanies the profound challenges of sickness in a spouse. Link to a book recommended by Elliot: https://www.amazon.com/Widowers-Notebook-Memoir-Jonathan-Santlofer/dp/0143132490 Link to Charity Supporting and Advocating for those diagnosed with Stage 4 Cancer: https://www.metavivor.org/ Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect th…
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Aug. 22, 2023
The Power of Language: Andy on his upbringing, his time in service in the military, and the book he recently wrote. | 52
We often forget the power of words. In day to day life as well as the relationships that we build, words do matter. Join us this week as we talk with Andy about his upbringing in the Midwest, his lessons learned during his time in the service, and why he wrote his book “Words Fucking Matter” and the lessons he hopes to impart. Andy’s Link Tree (Including a link to his book): https://linktr.ee/andyweins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andyweins/ Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to s...
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Aug. 15, 2023
Building the Life You Desire: Laurel’s journey of social anxiety struggles, realization of her needs in everyday life, and the joys of motherhood | 51
While the idea of introvert and extrovert has become a part of our understanding of personality, it does not alleviate the challenges presented by either. Join us today as we speak with Laurel about her experience as a lifelong introvert, her realization that she needed her own space and pace of life, her trepidation about becoming a mother, and the ultimate joy and presence being a mother has brought her. Link to Laurel’s Substack: https://onlyoldthings.substack.com Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way Sad Times Website: www.sadtimespodcast.com Get your very own “Sad Schwag” https://www.teepublic.com/stores/hysteria51/albums/253388-sad-times-podcast?ref_i…
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Aug. 8, 2023
The Power of Family: Whitney discusses her troubled father, the relationship she had with her immediate and extended family, and an unthinkable tragedy | 50
For many generations, discussing internal family strife was akin to “airing dirty laundry” — it was something that was simply not done. So it was with Whitney and her family. However, in the ensuing years, Whitney has gained amazing perspective and wisdom through day to day life. Join us today as we talk with Whitney about her upbringing, her struggles with an extremely difficult relationship, and the unexpected tragedy that befell her family. Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way Sad Times Website: www.sadtimespodcast.com Follow Sad Times on: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/373292146649249 Instagram: @sadtimespodcast Sad Schwag: https://www.teepublic…
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Aug. 1, 2023
Substance Abuse Survival: Scott’s story of dealing with addiction, the attendant health concerns, and his journey to sobriety | 49
Addiction and a racing mind tend to go hand in hand. As addiction strengthens, it is often far more pernicious than once believed. Join us as we talk with film actor Scott Schiaffo (Clerks, Vulgar) about his harrowing tales of substance abuse, his continued film career, and the health travails he has faced along the way toward his final destination of sobriety. Scott’s Website: www.scottschiaffo.com Link for Scott’s book: https://www.amazon.com/Vicious-Attack-Sleepless-Nights-Summer/dp/0615587402 Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way Sad Times Website: www.sadtimespodcast.com Follow Sad Times on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/373292146649249 Insta…
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July 25, 2023
The Beauty of Authentic Empowerment: Nicole shares stories of her career in mental health and her idea of “Authentic Empowerment” | 48
We all experience trauma as children. Whether we know it or not, we also bring that trauma into our adult relationships and interactions. Join us today as we speak with renowned mental health professional Nicole about her career in mental health, her experiences in various relationships in her life, and her message of “Authentic Empowerment”. Nicole’s Link Tree: https://linktr.ee/NicoleSartini Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way Sad Times Website: www.sadtimespodcast.com Follow Sad Times on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/373292146649249 Instagram: @sadtimespodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices See Priva…
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July 18, 2023
Finding Home In Family: Bonnie on what it’s like to grow up as a “Third Culture Kid”, the tragic and unexpected loss of both of her parents a decade apart, and her journey in the world of Advanced Clinical Massage | 47
For most of us, responding to an inquiry of where we are from is an easy answer. Even if we have to move around within that country, we always are able to point to where our roots are laid down. This has not always been the case for Bonnie, this week’s guest. Please join us as we learn about her childhood as the daughter of a proud Air Force man, the many different countries she lived in, the two seismic unexpected losses she experienced as an adult, and her current work in massage therapy assisting those dealing with mental health challenges. Bonnie Rose Aherin, ACMT, BTEC6 Bonnie’s dissertation title is: 'The Effects of the Online Jing Method™ of Advanced Clinical Massage on Mental Health in Adults' If you would like to register for the Online Clinical Research Conference, please visit: https://www.jingmassage.com/latest/online-clinical-massage-research-conference-20-7-23/ is a link to register for the Online Clinical Research Conference. Once registered you can watch live or w…
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July 11, 2023
The Continuing Artistic Journey: Melissa shares her experience of pursuing a theater career, becoming a mother, and her continuing passion to assist the artistic community | 46
Art is legitimate work. That being said, the conversations we often have around art and careers seek to exclude the artist from the society that they help enrich. Join us today as we speak with Melissa about her theatrical career, her times spent in the depth of “Head Trash” (More in the episode on that!), and her inspiring and amazing plan to continue to make sure Art is seen as legitimate and needed work. Smartistry: smartistry.org Melissa's website: melissapeck.com Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way Follow Sad Times on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/373292146649249 Follow Sad Times on Instagram: @sadtimespodcast Learn more about your ad …
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July 4, 2023
Postpartum Depression Among The Unspoken Expectations Of Society: Marina shares her journey through not only learning she was pregnant and the birth of her child, but also her struggles after her daughter was born | 45
Postpartum depression and anxiety is something that afflicts millions of women each year, yet it still seems to be too often experienced alone. Please join us as we speak with Marina about her own struggles with Postpartum depression and anxiety, her decision, along with her husband, to only have one child, and the societal norms that press against all facets of starting and raising a family. Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way Follow Sad Times on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/373292146649249 Interested In Being a Guest? sadtimekc@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.c…
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June 27, 2023
Becoming The Person You Are Meant To Be: Bill on his experience with coming out as a gay man, the severe heartbreak he experienced, and his lifelong love and adoration of the great Tina Turner | 44
No matter where we find ourselves in life, it is a good bet we have at least a handful of artists to which we turn for support, comfort, and guidance. Join us today as we speak with Bill about his experiencing coming out as a gay man to family and friends, his discovery and lifelong love of the impeccable Tina Turner, and how he has dealt with and learned from severe heartbreak in his past. Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way. Interested In Being a Guest? sadtimekc@gmail.com Follow Sad Times on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/373292146649249 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.…
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June 20, 2023
Overcoming severe Childhood traumas: Bobette discusses her extremely difficult childhood, her recent medical struggles and the bond she has with her children | 43
Growing up in the 1960s and 1970s, people were encouraged to keep their familial trauma within the walls of their homes. Even with severe trauma, people far too often felt alone in their suffering. Please join us today as Bobette tells her extremely powerful and resilient story of childhood trauma, medical struggles, and her longstanding and lasting bond with her children. Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way. Follow Sad Times on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/373292146649249 Interested In Being a Guest? sadtimekc@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and C…
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June 13, 2023
Unhealthy Mental Health Manifestations: Kaet discusses the release of cutting and her long battle with an eating disorder | 42
Anxiety and depression and their effects show up in many different forms. Millions of Americans have struggled at some point with an eating disorder as well as unhealthy coping mechanisms like cutting. Join us today as we talk with Kaet about her struggles with cutting, her long battle with an eating disorder, and how she has used her difficult experiences working with youth as a school counselor. Editorial note: Sad Times is committed to sharing various stories from generous guests. The hope is to allow any number of stories to be shared to help people feel less alone and, perhaps, more empathetic. It is important to clarify that the guests’ stories, perspectives, and sentiments do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Sad Times in any way Follow Sad Times on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/373292146649249 Interested In Being a Guest? sadtimekc@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://a…